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Monday, July 21, 2008

Marriage

They say marriages are made in heaven. They may be true and also marriage is not a joke and it’s not supposed to be like those marriages which are frequent among Hollywood stars. If you are ready to give up everything and live with the one that you’re going to marry then its ok but spending some time as a couple and departing away from each other is not what marriages are all about.


It’s obvious people falling for each other and promising to be by each other’s side for their entire life. But the reality and consequences after marriage could easily change them. Not because she won’t be happy with him or vice versa but a lot of factors arise in between them. These commitments seem to be worthless when they face the real world. Apart from materialistic greed there may be so many other reasons which could hamper a nice life for both the girl and the boy. Before marriage, people get themselves blindfolded because they had been desperately in need of a good friend or more precisely a life time partner.


Life after marriage is not as easy as it sounds as one has to sacrifice a lot and compromise in each and every step of their life. Family issues always come first whenever a small decision has to be made and thus a married person is bound by obligations and responsibilities.


However, it is silly to think or run away from such responsibilities. This is why one should marry and take the challenge. Life’s not always unfair, it’s dough and can be molded in whatever way one likes and wants. The bottom line is to be loyal to your wife/husband and trust him/her as well. It the love blossoms in between a married couples, there’s nothing which could tear them apart.

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